Sunday, December 14, 2008

Croft life is certainly not romantic

Croft life is certainly not romantic; it is pure hard grind. The weather has been mostly wet and our garden & fields are waterlogged. Every time the dogs go out they come back covered in mud. The pigs have been escaping. Charlotte in particular is a very intelligent nosey pig; we keep wavering about keeping them for breeding or saying bye bye to them for dinner. I keep looking at Charlotte and make loads of excuses as to why we should keep her, even though I know in my head that they should go.

This last 2 weeks have been very cold, our Rayburn refuses to go to a decent temperature, it reminds me of my childhood when we used to get dressed as quickly as possible when we got up in the mornings and there would be frost on the inside of the windows.

Yet I still love it here, going down to the beach empty of people, watching the waves crashing in, watching the storm clouds gather in the huge sky. Walking the croft with the dogs on a frosty morning. Every time I go into an overheated building now I get claustrophobic and feel as though I am being boiled alive.

Ron has been away this week, working in Oxford & doing an AGM for the Haven in Colchester.
He arrived back yesterday & today we are all travelling to Denmark for a weekend in Copenhagen & Malmo in Sweden. Ron is working at Slotsvaat on Monday & I am sightseeing with the kids. Hoping to spend the day in Tivoli gardens tomorrow, perks of travelling so much is we can have the occasional trip like this on air miles.

The kids are becoming far too sophisticated travellers, asking whether they can be business class, & why are their no films on the flight. I think I was 15 before I went on my first aeroplane yet our kids have been to the other side of the world several times now; perhaps that is why it is so important that they are grounded in Lewis. Where life is much simpler & they cant keep asking for the latest new gadget.


Ron Coleman and Karen Taylor have an international reputation as speakers and authors. They are the directors of ‘Working to Recovery Limited’ an innovative international consultancy, training and publishing company with a cutting edge approach to supporting and improving mental health provision.

Wednesday, December 3, 2008

We arrived home to utter chaos

We arrived home to utter chaos; I have now learnt never to rely on an adolescent teenager. The house was unliveable in for 3 days so luckily Seppi let us use her holiday cottage.

Although we had bad weather in Australia, particularly in Melbourne I don’t think we were quite prepared with how cold & wet it would be. We have all acclimatised now. I must admit that now the cottage is sorted, the fires have been burning & it’s warm & cosy I am glad to be home for a few weeks.
Charlotte & Laia our 2 pigs have really grown, we now have to decide whether we are going to use them to breed or whether they will keep us in Pork for the next year.

Ron’s eldest daughter Victoria graduated from university in Teesside as a psychiatric nurse a fortnight ago; she has worked really hard and is very passionate about recovery and how people are being treated. I think she will be another strong advocate for humanity based nursing care in the future.

We have just heard we are off to Palestine for 2 weeks in January. I am really looking forward to seeing how they are doing. It was so good having the 2 nurses over with us in Australia, one of them had never left Palestine before. Their enthusiasm & desire to see recovery based practice happening in their own services is wonderful particularly given the circumstances & the lack of resources they have. I now find it difficult when uk based staff moan about lack of finance and use this as an excuse to do nothing, when I have been privileged to see staff do great things with very little.

The chief nurse is a midwife by background & due to john Watkins I found out that the word “therapist” in its original translation means Midwife of the soul, I think this describes so accurately what good nursing practice in psychiatry should be about, helping the person through their crisis and finding themselves in the process- reborn and transformed.


Ron Coleman and Karen Taylor have an international reputation as speakers and authors. They are the directors of ‘Working to Recovery Limited’ an innovative international consultancy, training and publishing company with a cutting edge approach to supporting and improving mental health provision.